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How my body helped me make up with my husband

What if the key to breaking through relationship conflicts isn’t in the talking but in the listening… to your body? In this episode, Gervase reveals how shifting from mind-based strategies to somatic and soul approaches (read: dropping out of the mind and into the body) transformed a weeks-long rupture in her marriage into a moment of deep connection and repair. Listen in as she shares her struggles with “circling the drain” with repetitive arguments, how the mind can get in the way of reconciliation, and the power of the body in moving through relationship stalemates. Keep listening for questions you can ask yourself to explore the practice of dropping into your body wisdom, and for a powerful reminder that healing doesn’t always come from trying harder but from thinking differently.

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Why My Trip to PR Was Good For My Kids (And Awesome for Me)

Back from her trip to Puerto Rico, Gervase shares the impact of our cultural conditioning around motherhood, the stories its led us to tell ourselves, and why leaving martyrdom motherhood in the past will help you not only keep your sanity but leave a legacy for your children that you’ll be proud of. Join the discussion as she dives deeper than the “take care of yourself” platitudes, addressing the symptoms of internalized patriarchy, why there’s no shame in taking a break, and how accepting our multi-dimensionality as women and mothers can leave a lasting imprint on our children.

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Breaking up with Your Good Girl with Stephanie Jiroch

What does it look like to own your story? On this episode of the It’s All Me podcast Gervase introduces us to her former client and longtime community member Stephanie Jiroch, an expert on helping others craft stories that stand out while being true to themselves. Listen in as they discuss how they each broke up with their own ‘good girl’ complex on the path to radical authenticity, through pain, grief, mistakes and an it’s all me mindset.

Stephanie Jiroch is the founder and CEO of Story Leadership Institute, a company dedicated to supporting emerging leaders and purpose-driven companies communicate their big ideas through the power of story. Stephanie is pursuing her Ph.D. in Brand Psychology with an emphasis on digital identity development, investigating the self-presentation habits of mothers on Instagram.

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A Cross-Cultural, Multi-Layered Approach to Healing with Mandy Burstein

It’s not uncommon to hear people talking about ‘unleashing the wild woman,’ but the next question is - then what? On this episode of the It’s All Me podcast, Gervase sits down with Mandy Burstein to discuss their journeys of finding safe and healthy ways to express generationally suppressed emotions, the healing experience of embracing the duality of death and grief, and what has been healing for them as mothers rewriting their own traumas and triggers while simultaneously being the blueprint for their children. Listen in for a behind the scenes look at the experiences provided at their previous retreat held in Sayulita, Mexico.

Mandy Burstein is a teacher of yoga, mindfulness and transformational breathwork who is passionate about lovingly pushing people beyond their comfort zones to discover how strong, beautiful and powerful they truly are. Since 2010, she has led group classes, spiritual self-discovery workshops and week-long yoga retreats, and was a guest teacher at Gervase’s Sayulita retreat.

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My Intuition Called Me Out and I Chose to Listen

Ever had that moment when you’re just… fed up? Today’s solo episode is a quick, relatable personal story about a recent parenting moment when my intuition interfered on behalf of my 10yo and I chose to listen. The result? Instant alignment and nervous system regulation and a new opportunity to bridge the gap between who I intend to be as a modern woman and who I actually am.

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Divorce Redefined - From Needless to Expressed & Empowered with Jasmine Chanelle

So. Many. Truthbombs. On this episode of the It’s All Me podcast, Gervase sits down with Mom2Mogul creator and recent divorcee, Jasmine Chanelle. Together they discuss the ripple effects of and the path back from self-abandonment in relationships, boundaries and standards with the people around us (including our children), and Jasmine’s personal experience of outgrowing feeling needless and wantless in a marriage to feeling like a wildly expressed woman and mother in her power.

A mom of 3, Jasmine Chanelle is an entrepreneur and host of the Mom2Mogul podcast. She brings 10 plus years of marketing and branding experience to the online space as a personal brand coach for mompreneurs. She specializes in turning everyday moms into business moguls by helping them master their mindset and messaging and creates content that inspires millennial moms to have it all by sharing her life on Instagram and TikTok.

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Inside My Marriage Pt 2: a dreamer and a realist, an empowered wife, and how we upleveled our communication

What happens when a dreamer and a realist get married? Join Gervase and her husband Kevin in this Part 2 episode, where they open up about how they choose to grow and move beyond their challenges instead of resorting to putting up walls. Listen in for a behind the scenes look at the work that goes into a marriage focused on giving each other space to be their truest selves (aka Gervase continually burning the patriarchal marriage dynamic to ash), insights on better communication, solution-based conversations, and why ego could be holding you back from your best partnership.

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The IAM Mindset Edition: Free Masterclass + Workbook

Free training alert! On this special episode of the It’s All Me podcast, Gervase shares a recording of a recent masterclass held inside one of her signature communities, the Gateway. Gervase dives into the what and how of the new It’s All Me framework, the delicious complexity of womanhood and life, and gives a live step-by-step walkthrough of the new IAM workbook (download for free below!). Come back to this framework everytime life asks you to reset your arrows so you can hit your targets and create coherence in your life.

Be sure to download your free workbook to use alongside this podcast and experience the framework first-hand.

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Should I Have a Baby? My Answer (and what I believe you’re really asking)

Are you teetering between a hell yes and a hell no when it comes to having children? On this episode of the podcast, Gervase explains how this is linked to self-trust, using a recent conversation with a client to explore reflections you can use to make decisions in your own life. Join Gervase as she discusses the importance of shifting from an external to an internal focus, becoming a safe container for self, and what that looks like in a world that is constantly sending mixed signals.

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Working Through Resistance Without Bypassing the Fear

The ‘Fake it til you make it’ era is over. No more slapping on happy faces, no more ‘feeling the fear and doing it anyway’ mantra subscriptions. As modern women ready to rise and embrace their Phoenix moments, their truest selves and desires, we need to be giving resistance a seat at the table. In this episode of the podcast, G shares her personal experience of coming up against resistance right before her most recent Phoenix session, and how we can use the resistance we feel to reconnect to our purpose - and that feels pretty f*cking good.

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A Fresh Take on Wife Guilt

How many times a day do you was a wife, mother, or woman feel guilty? Guilty for asking for help. Guilty for even wanting support in the first place. WTF is up with that? Join G on today’s episode as she breaks down a guilt that is so pervasive in today’s society, unpacking why guilt may be showing up in your life, and how to release it in an empowering way so that we aren’t perpetuating our own victimhood.

G discusses:

[05:57] Unpacking why it’s so hard to let ourselves be supported

[10:10] The truth about motherhood and how our guilt could be disempowering our partners

[16:51] Inviting in a new perspective

[19:10] How G continues to build agency inside of her marriage

[24:34] Where to go if you have questions

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