This podcast is a complete education in knowing and choosing.

Knowing your wants and needs, as guided by the wisdom of your mind, body and soul

And CHOOSING them, despite the expectations, conditioning and constraints in our lives.

Knowing what’s ready to be released and burned away, so you can evolve into the next expanded iteration of yourself.

To be a modern woman is to have unique challenges born from the conditioning of the generations before us, and unprecedented opportunity to choose differently.

We can forge our own path, but information overload and seemingly inescapable demands of modern life make it hard to know the “right” way. That’s where I come in. I’m here to help you unlock your intuition, tap into the wisdom and resource of your body, and navigate this confusing, demanding, gorgeous life. 

The power is in you. I’ll help you set it free. 

The modern phoenix podcast

Who is the Modern Phoenix?

The Modern Phoenix is a woman who has reclaimed her agency and lives her life from a place of sustained self-trust, inner knowing, and active choices.


She is:

Integrated in mind, body and soul.

Resourced and steady, like a calm sea, respectful of the storms that will always come and go, yet always knowing how to return to stillness. 

Intentionally choosing her life, not resigned to allowing a traumatized nervous system or conditioned mind to make her choices for her. 

Authentically alive - no pretending, fawning, or shrinking

Fully herself, embracing her range and her many complexities, dimensions, emotions and contradictions

Attuned to her pleasure - an increased capacity for receiving life’s enjoyment is a way of life. Her way of life.

Embodied in her feminine power and safe in her body.

She doesn’t just live the life someone else carved out for her. She chooses for herself based on her own needs and wants, not her conditioning or “shoulds”. 

What she actually chooses isn’t the point. It’s that it is aligned with her deepest, truest desires of mind, body and soul. 

She will be perfectly herself in every season, not who others say she is or must be. 

She knows what’s ready to be burned away and is brave enough to choose it, even if it requires letting go of who she was to become a version of herself she can feel, but not yet see.

She can do all this because she is trusting in herself and her intuition.

She is you (or the you that you are about to become). 
And she is magnificent.

  • Truth and F bombs

    ★★★★★

    Real motherhood. Messy and imperfect and still beautiful and inspiring. I’ve known Gervase for years, she has a way of cutting through the cloudy thoughts and getting right at the heart of what’s most important as we try to mother/work/partner/friend and still just be ourselves, even as that person evolves. So far her podcasts have felt like home - it’s the voice and perspective and I find myself needing SO much of right now as I try to parent 4 humans and continually adjust to what that looks like in my life and theirs.

    — PluffMudd, on apple podcasts

  • Do yourself a favor and listen to this podcast. You will be hooked.

    ★★★★★

    Do yourself a favor and listen to this podcast. You will be hooked. Gervase is super authentic and relatable. She is clearly passionate about her craft. Each time I listen to her, I feel like she is talking DIRECTLY to me at EXACTLY the right time about something so SPECIFIC that feels like a current challenge in my life. I don’t know how she does it, but I love it and you will too.

    — Juliecamba, on apple podcasts

  • A podcast filled with amazingness!

    ★★★★★

    I am very selective with the podcasts I listen to (hello, information overload). But I am intentional about listening to this podcast. Gervase is on point and fills her episodes with information and value that I need to have in my life. Subscribe! Listen! You will be so glad you did.

    — Kvmarz, on apple podcasts

  • This is one of my favorite podcasts!

    ★★★★★

    This is one of my favorite podcasts! Gervase makes sense and shares actual, usable tips, and thought provoking mindsets. Really helpful to decompress, but with someone that talks like a real, needed, friend, not a yoga teacher. (Love yoga, and it’s teachers, but sometimes need that friendship energy)

    — GG19123, On Apple Podcasts

  • One of the few voices I’d listen to regarding motherhood!

    ★★★★★

    There’s not many voices in the motherhood space I’d listen to religiously but Gervase is one of them. The quality of both the podcast itself and the guests Gervase highlights are excellent. So glad this exists! If you’re a mom of littles, just do yourself a favor and subscribe!

    — Best Kept Self, on apple podcasts

  • G is Amazing…and not just for mamas!

    ★★★★★

    You don’t even need to be a mother to listen to Gervase and get real legitimate life advice. Real conversations that will either help you understand yourself better, or at least help you understand your significant other. She is borderline too honest and she’s willing to dig in to figure it out, oh and…she legit wants to help. Can’t wait to see where this podcast goes! Don’t miss out

    — JayWaynesWorld, on apple podcasts

My ask of you is that you bring the shifts that happen in this space to your real lives…

To the hard stuff.

The people, conversations, triggers and events that make you feel like you are powerless. Show them who the F you really are - and ALL that you are—by being the true you. All of you. Because, when it comes down to it, your life, relationships, successes and failures — they don’t define you; you define them. 

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